“I don’t want to settle with someone who cheats just because I am trans,” Faith said in a confessional on the Nov. 17 episode of ’90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days’
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Faith speaks with her sisters about her concerns about the relationship she has forged with Loren.
Now that Faith has introduced Loren to her family, she is opening up to her sisters about some of his biggest shortcomings.
Loren met Faith’s family for the very first time on the Nov. 17 episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, during which he insisted that his intentions with Faith are pure. But during the meeting, Faith informed her family that she and Loren were “just friends” for the time being.
Afterward, Faith found some alone time with her sisters, Abigail and Bea, who asked her why she and Loren were no longer dating. So Faith dropped the bombshells one by one.
“He has an STD,” Faith confessed. She then revealed she broke up with Loren “because he had sex with others.”
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Faith meets up alone with her sisters to have a private conversation about her relationship with Loren.
Faith’s sisters were stunned, but had opposite reactions to the news. Abigail immediately expressed concern. “That shouldn’t be the case,” she told Faith.
But Bea, who is also a transgender woman, offered a different opinion, telling Faith she “would really go for it” with Loren if she were in the same position.
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“It’s quite hard to find a guy who would take us seriously,” Bea explained.
In a confessional, Bea noted that it can be even more difficult to find such a man in the Philippines, where gay marriage is illegal.
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Abigail, left, and Bea, right, listen to Faith’s concerns about Loren and their relationship.
Faith admitted she was “nervous” about trusting Loren again, telling her sisters, “I’m scared he’ll cheat on me again.”
Bea admitted in her confessional that she would also “have second thoughts” after learning her partner had been unfaithful, but added, “I would still accept it because we are all humans and we make mistakes.”
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In her own confessional, Faith said, “I understand what Bea is saying, but I still want to be respected and loved. And I don’t want to settle with someone who cheats just because I am trans.”
She added, “If someone loves me, then he should be able to respect me.”
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Faith says she wants to be respected by Loren if she is going to be in a relationship with him.
“So, do you truly love him?” Bea bluntly asked at the end of the conversation.
Faith was quiet. So Bea continued, “Just tell him the truth and don’t give him any false hope.”
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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days airs on Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.
